Age, education, experience and their positive correlation with the speed of happiness drainage
but now most people, when asked how they are doing they are only relaying the unhappiness in their lives, and the negativities they see in other people.
I wonder it it's because they just don't see the good stuff or if it's just that they don't care for it and find it easier to complain; and in a sense derive their joy from negativity. Ironic as it may seem, perhaps these people look for happiness in the amounts others can spare for them through getting other people's sympathies... They neglect the fact that happiness can be created from scratch, from themselves and and radiate to others achieving a greater overall magnitude and continuity.
People say that those who only talk about how wonderful everything is are naive... but I beg to differ, it's not because they don't see the bad things, but because they choose to let the good overshine the rest. That's it. I think that is the secret to happiness... see both sides, but reflect the good things, emphasize them, pass it on and infect those around you. It's so easy, but so hard for most people!
For those of you who see beauty in everything, don't change, you are truly refreshing.
Ingredients to Happiness:
1 Tbsp of first spring wind
1tbsp of maple syrup
1 cup of spring snow flakes
4 hours of classical music
One big white cloud
piece of crystal blue sky
5 kisses
a pinch of saddness (to emphasize the rest of the flavours)
a pinch of cumin
Blend together, freeze into star - shaped molds, serve on everything
Serves: a gazillion people
Size per serving: unlimited